Here's an interesting story of a 13 year old autistic boy who was banned (even to the point of a restraining order) from church.
That led me to another find Autism and Faith: A Journey into Community which I would love to get a look at.
Looking at my church, I wonder what would happen if a boy like Adam Race and his parents showed up to worship. I would hope that the reaction wouldn't be the same. But does my (or your) church have a plan for providing for the needs of a boy like Adam? Would it be inclusive or would you provide a separate space?